Question

Переведите на англ., пожалуйста Многие подростки задумывались о том, чтобы наконец то стать взрослыми. Быть независимыми от родителей в финансовом плане и самим распоряжаться своей жизнью. Кто то готов это сделать уже 17, а другой не может решится и в 20 Я считаю, что норма для каждого своя, но при принятии решения о том, когда лучше уезжать от родителей, я бы ориентировалась не на возраст, а на то, когда молодой человек или девушка могут самостоятельно оплатить съёмное жильё и обеспечить себя. Если это возможно, то считается, что человек независим от родителей. Обычно долго не переезжают из-за того, что не могут сами снять квартиру или готовить и стирать. Но даже если бытовых и финансовых проблем нет, молодые люди иногда всё равно отказываются жить отдельно. У этого может быть много разных причин: например, они могут жить самостоятельно, но не верят в это. Или сильно включены в отношения с родителями и выполняют в них какую-то особую роль. Дети могу считать: если я уйду, родителям будет скучно или они поубивают друг друга. Ещё жизнь с семьёй бывает просто удобной. То, что самостоятельные и финансово независимые молодые люди долго не начинают самостоятельную жизнь, — проблема. Это приводит к большей инфантильности, а чем более человек инфантилен, тем меньше он хочет строить семью и заводить детей. Учёные проводили такой эксперимент: они обеспечивали подопытных мышей всем, удовлетворяли все их потребности. В результате мыши просто отказывались размножаться, они не хотели менять своё гедонистическое положение. У людей то же самое: уходить от родителей значит брать на себя ответственность, а многие считают, что это страшно. Они воспринимают её не как право, а как негативную перспективу: страшно отвечать за свою жизнь и строить отношения. Некоторые уверены, что должны отвечать не только за себя, но и за своего партнёра, хотя это не так: каждый человек отвечает только за самого себя и только с появлением детей уже и за них тоже. И даже эта ответственность со временем переходит к самим детям.

Answer 1

Many teenagers thought about how to finally become adults. Be independent of parents financially and manage your own life. Someone is ready to do it already 17, and the other can not be solved and in 20I believe that the norm for everyone is different, but when deciding when it is better to leave my parents, I would focus not on age, but on when a young man or a girl can independently pay for rented accommodation and offers himself. If this is possible, then it is considered that the person is independent of the parents. Usually they do not move for a long time because they can not rent an apartment or cook and wash themselves.But even if there are no domestic and financial problems, young people sometimes refuse to live separately. It can have many different reasons: for example, they can live independently, but do not believe in it. Or they have a special role in relations with parents and work in them. Children can consider: if I leave, parents will be bored or they will kill each other. Still life with the family is just convenient.
The fact that independent and financially independent young people do not start an independent life for a long time is a problem. This leads to greater infantilism, and the more a person is infantile, the less he wants to build a family and have children. Scientists conducted such an experiment: they provided the experimental mice to all, satisfied all their needs. As a result, mice simply refused to reproduce, they did not want to change their hedonic position.

People have the same thing: leaving parents means taking responsibility, and many people think that it's scary. They perceive it not as a right, but as a negative prospect: it is terrible to be responsible for one's life and build relationships. Some are sure that they must answer not only for themselves, but also for their partner, although this is not so: each person is responsible only for himself and only with the appearance of children already and for them too. And even this responsibility eventually passes to the children themselves.

Answer 2

Becoming Independent from Parents

Many teenagers contemplate the idea of finally becoming adults and being financially independent from their parents, as well as having control over their own lives. Some individuals may be ready to do this at the age of 17, while others may struggle to make the decision even at the age of 20. In my opinion, the right time to move away from parents should not be based solely on age, but rather on the individual's ability to independently afford rent and support themselves financially. If a person can achieve this, they are considered independent from their parents. However, there are various reasons why young people sometimes choose not to live separately, even if they don't face any financial or practical obstacles. These reasons can include a lack of self-confidence or trust in their own abilities, strong emotional ties to their parents, or a belief that their departure would negatively impact their parents' well-being. Additionally, some individuals find comfort in the familiarity and convenience of living with their family. The fact that financially independent young adults often delay starting their own lives can be seen as a problem, as it can lead to increased immaturity. The more immature a person is, the less likely they are to desire starting a family and having children. This phenomenon can be observed in an experiment conducted with mice, where researchers provided all the mice's needs and desires. As a result, the mice refused to reproduce because they did not want to change their hedonistic lifestyle. Similarly, humans may perceive leaving their parents' home as taking on responsibility, which many find daunting. They may view it as a negative prospect, fearing the burden of being accountable for their own lives and building relationships. Some individuals even believe that they should be responsible not only for themselves but also for their partners, although this is not the case. Each person is responsible only for themselves, and the responsibility for children arises only when they are born. Even this responsibility gradually shifts to the children themselves over time.